By the way, my story I think is a good one. My husband's x was doing eveything to break up our marriage, including telling me she was still sleeping with my husband. He denied it, but I figured better safe than sorry. It turns out she's the liar, and he's still my husband! I know I should have just trusted him, but if you got nothing to hide, and eveything to gain, I say go for it. It totally saved my marriage. Of course I'd still like to make sure every now and then!

